NEW Short Film- Mirrors by Natalia Kills (Explicit Content) Hehe;)

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Let’s Talk About: BDSM- Who is doing it??!

Hello. Welcome to the deepest, darkest part of my blog. This is where we talk about BDSM and all things related.

Note: If you have any questions or want to talk BDSM, comment below, or feel free to add me on Fetlife.com (its_mistress_b) or feel free to shoot me an email (its.mistress.b@gmail.com) If you choose to remain anonymous, that is completely fine. I will never share your name or email address with anybody else. I understand it’s somewhat of a sensitive topic. I receive 100s of emails a day, and will usually get to your email within 48 hours. 

Ok, onto the reading…

First off, if you do NOT know what BDSM stands for, then here is a short explanation. 

Bondage-Dominance/Discipline-Sadism/Submission, Masochism

A little history on this.. BDSM dates way back to Ancient Greek times. Ancient art thoroughly depicted Kama Sutra (300AD) and public spanking along with other erotic activities. Even 18th century European brothels specialized in dominant women “punishing” eager and deserving submissive men with floggers for sexual enjoyment.

Studies show that people who engage in BDSM tend to be more extroverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientious, more secure in their relationships, more sexually adventurous overall, less paranoid about other disliking them, and less stressed.

Alright, now it’s time for statistics.. Who’s into what? 

Tell their partners what they want during sex:  

YES-71%

NO-29%

Share their sexual fantasies with their partner:

YES-56%

NO-44%

Use Blindfolds Regularly:

YES-27%

NO-73%

Have a safe word:

YES-17%

NO-83%

(Note: I was absolutely astounded by this statistic.. It’s important to have a safe word in all sexual relationships… One that doesn’t ruin the mood, but let’s your partner know that you don’t like what is going on. SO. VERY. IMPORTANT.)

Alright, let’s break it down by genders now.

Like to be bitten erotically:

WOMEN-55%

MEN-50%

Men have always been seen as the most dominant gender since the age of time, but the truth is, in the bedroom.. That isn’t always the case.

MALES:

Dominant-48%

Submissive-33% (YES, a third of men like when the woman takes charge.. Meeeeowwww!)

Switch- 18%

FEMALES:

Dominant- 8%

Submissive- 75%

Switch- 16%


Did a little filming today, please watch ⭐️ Short Film: Depression, Anxiety, Self-Esteem, and Addiction ❤️❤️❤️ PinkRainProductions

Turn up the sound! ❤️❤️❤️ 

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This is ME! (Repost because it got 500 views in the first 2 hours)

This Is ME.I’m sitting at work, looking up kinky pictures and quotes on the internet as Christian radio plays faint in the background. Makes me giggle a bit. “Who turned this on?” I think to myself.I remember working at my moms store growing up where Christian radio played nonstop. I remember thinking “this is exactly where I need to be”. It’s not where I was, but where I thought society wanted me to be. I was miserable. And then I grew up..

As I browse through the thousands of kinky, BDSM-related pictures, all I can think is “THIS is exactly where I am, this is me” and it makes me happy. 
It’s amazing what a few years can do. You change yourself repeatedly until you finally figure out who you are. But once you find it, it’s bliss. 

Who I am isn’t necessarily what society thinks I should be. I’m non-conventional & strict non-conformist. I’m hell-on-heels, I like the darkness, and if it’s dirty, kinky, messy, or just plain wrong. I want it. I’ll make you beg, I’ll make you scream, and I’ll make you bite the pillow, but I promise you’ll like it. 

I’ll give you intellectual orgasms in multiples and allow temptation to drip from your ears. I’ll go down on your thoughts, and taste your perception. I’m a saint with the lips of a sinner. And an angel with a devilish kiss. I’m not vanilla, and will make your wildest fantasies a reality. I’m very attracted to men 25+ and women in their 30s and 40s (Something about knowledge with age thing) and I’m not afraid to admit my curiosities. You come onto me, I’ll reciprocate. 

What some women see as degrading, I see as empowering. Your pleasure is my pleasure, darling.. -Lennox

This is me. And I like this part of me. Once you learn to embrace your sexuality for what it is, you’ve won half the battle of figuring out who you truly are.

Erotica (Explicit)-We’re Just Getting Started

Once again, we were back to the same old song and dance. I dimmed the lights and returned my gaze to the bed where Marie had assumed the position that I set for her when we made our contract months previously. Her forehead was pressed against the bed, her ass was in the air, and her knees were a foot apart, just the way I like it.

“Oh baby, you know exactly what I like. Do you think I should let you cum tonight?” I said

“Please, Mistress” She replied.

“What was that?” I lifted an eyebrow.

“Please, Mistress, let me cum tonight. I have done exactly as you asked today.” She begged.

“You brought yourself to the edge 3 times and came only after the third, am I correct?”

“Yes, Mistress.”

“Good girl.” I gave a slight smile as I gave her a few nice spanks, each more intense than the last.

She winced as I went for the last spank. My handprint glowed red across her beautiful ass. I like to leave my mark, and claim what is mine. I take great care of my things, and for the time being, she is mine.

“I didn’t hear a thank you.” I said sternly.

“Thank you, Mistress.”

“Good girl.”

I reached between her legs and began to touch her. She tensed a bit as I inserted a couple fingers into her.

“Relax, Baby.”

She exhaled and began to moan as I gradually moved faster.

“Do you want to cum, Baby?”

“Yes, Mistress, I want to cum.”

I pulled my fingers out.
“Nope, not yet.”

Her body shuddered as she restrained from cuming without my permission.

“Don’t worry, we’re just getting started,” I laughed.

“I Trust You” 

Marie shuffled around the bedroom a bit before sitting down on the bed beside me. She seemed nervous. For her to be nervous didn’t make any sense to me. She had such a strong personality, and most definitely wasn’t a shy person.

“I’m scared,” Marie said as she looked down at the ground.

“Baby, I won’t hurt you, I promise.”

“How do you know that?” She said skeptically.

“Because.. I know you. I know what you like, what you don’t, and how much you can tolerate before it gets to be too much. Trust me, this could be really good for you.”

“How did you get into something like this?” Marie looked me directly in the eyes.

“Marie, darling, My life is a whole lot of chaos, and I needed to find something to relieve me of that. I like feeling like I have control of what is going on. The bedroom is the only place I can feel any sort of control, so that is my escape. I like to tell my sub what to do, and be thanked for it. I like to be in control of the orgasm…the power to deny or grant their request. But mostly, it’s being able to take care of someone I care about deeply. The domination is just a symbol for me of being able to give them something that nobody else can. It is special between my sub and I. And you are very special to me. I want you to have this piece of me that most people never will experience.”

Marie nodded her head a few times and shifted her gaze to the restraints sitting on my bedside table.

“I trust you.”