Let’s Talk About: BDSM- Who is doing it??!

Hello. Welcome to the deepest, darkest part of my blog. This is where we talk about BDSM and all things related.

Note: If you have any questions or want to talk BDSM, comment below, or feel free to add me on Fetlife.com (its_mistress_b) or feel free to shoot me an email (its.mistress.b@gmail.com) If you choose to remain anonymous, that is completely fine. I will never share your name or email address with anybody else. I understand it’s somewhat of a sensitive topic. I receive 100s of emails a day, and will usually get to your email within 48 hours. 

Ok, onto the reading…

First off, if you do NOT know what BDSM stands for, then here is a short explanation. 

Bondage-Dominance/Discipline-Sadism/Submission, Masochism

A little history on this.. BDSM dates way back to Ancient Greek times. Ancient art thoroughly depicted Kama Sutra (300AD) and public spanking along with other erotic activities. Even 18th century European brothels specialized in dominant women “punishing” eager and deserving submissive men with floggers for sexual enjoyment.

Studies show that people who engage in BDSM tend to be more extroverted, more open to new experiences, more conscientious, more secure in their relationships, more sexually adventurous overall, less paranoid about other disliking them, and less stressed.

Alright, now it’s time for statistics.. Who’s into what? 

Tell their partners what they want during sex:  

YES-71%

NO-29%

Share their sexual fantasies with their partner:

YES-56%

NO-44%

Use Blindfolds Regularly:

YES-27%

NO-73%

Have a safe word:

YES-17%

NO-83%

(Note: I was absolutely astounded by this statistic.. It’s important to have a safe word in all sexual relationships… One that doesn’t ruin the mood, but let’s your partner know that you don’t like what is going on. SO. VERY. IMPORTANT.)

Alright, let’s break it down by genders now.

Like to be bitten erotically:

WOMEN-55%

MEN-50%

Men have always been seen as the most dominant gender since the age of time, but the truth is, in the bedroom.. That isn’t always the case.

MALES:

Dominant-48%

Submissive-33% (YES, a third of men like when the woman takes charge.. Meeeeowwww!)

Switch- 18%

FEMALES:

Dominant- 8%

Submissive- 75%

Switch- 16%


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